OK, so it's been a while since I've written. Part of the reason is that just before Thanksgiving, my Grandmother passed away, so I made a last minute trip back to Iowa (with the boys... yikes!) I thought I would take this opportunity to write down some of the things I best remember about grandma.
Grandma loved to cook. And she was really good at it. I can't tell you how many people came up to me during the visitation or service and told me how they remembered spending Christmas Eve at Grandma's house. As a kid I remember her house packed with people for a traditional Swedish meal. My job was to finish wrapping the presents she hadn't got finished yet, so I spent a good portion of every Christmas Eve afternoon in my Grandparents' attic wrapping while she cooked the feast below. There was potato bologna, oyster stew, tons of sweets (Grandma was known for her sweet tooth... must be genetic!), rolls, and my favorite, rice pudding. This has always been my favorite dish from Grandma, and when she taught me to make it, I had to force her to measure the ingredients so I could write it down. She always just did it by feel!
After dinner, the adults would take FOREVER to do the dishes, and when the were finally done, we could open our presents. Not only could Grandma cook, she could shop too. I always looked most forward to her presents, she had amazing taste in clothes and jewelry, so as a teenager, I loved the complete outfits that she would put together for me under the tree. One year, I received this very stylish button down jean shirt. I immediately loved it, but did notice that it didn't have any tags on it. My cousin (who is two years younger than me - and a guy) said, hey, that's my shirt! Apparently he left it at her house, and she saw it and thought she bought it for me for Christmas... by then it was too small for my cousin, so I got to keep it. I wore that shirt a ton!
At the services, people described her spunk. I remember a time when I was sick and she make me a batch of rice pudding to help me feel better. Dad was supposed to bring it home from work with him, but forgot. Grandma made Dad drive back over and get the rice for me! Also, our family has always been in the food business, largely due to Grandma's drive and salesmanship. There was a time when I was in middle school when the family business was starting to produce pie shells in addition to pasta. Grandma ordered a piece of pie in a local restaurant known for their pies, and then because she was curious, she flipped the piece over on her plate to analyze the bottom of the crust. I was like 13 and mortified that my whole family was flipping their pies over to check out the bottom!
This is one of my favorite pictures of Grandma (and Grandpa) with N on his first birthday. She is very missed by my whole family, especially by my Grandpa who I hope will come visit us in March. Love you Grandpa!