Monday, April 28, 2008

Top 10 things I won't miss about Korea.

Not to be all negative... but there will be some things I won't miss about living in Korea!

10)  The drivers.  Let's just say that I'll be happy to be driving where most of the people on the road are following the local traffic laws, even if they are on the wrong side of the road!

9)  Roads that are way to small for the size and quantity of cars that are on them.  I mean waaay too small.  Which brings me to my next item...

8)  The traffic.  I mean seriously.  One Saturday it took me 4 hours and 15 minutes to get home from the airport, with two little boys in the back seat!  (This is normally a 1.5 hour drive, yikes!)

7)  The lack of maps or named streets.  I'm ready to give directions by some manner other than landmarks (drive till you see the Up Mart on the corner and take a left...).  As far as we can figure out this isn't just because we can't read the Korean street signs or maps... I really don't think there are very many!

6)  Our bathrooms.  They are always wet, mildewy, and smelly.  No matter what.  I can't wait to sit outside the bathtub to bathe the boys without getting soaked because I'm sitting in the shower!

5)  The itty-bitty oven in my kitchen.  I'm really looking forward to baking in something larger than an 8 x 8 pan!  Also the dishwasher that doesn't so much wash as just rinse... 

4)  The rock hard couch and bed that are in our apartment.  I mean, the mattress is like a box springs.  It took two mattress pads and and egg crate to make it sleepable.  And the couch... my butt falls asleep if I sit on it for longer than 30 minutes.  You think I'm kidding?  Come watch a movie over here sometime...  Actually, this seems to be a problem for most people who have Korean furniture.  I'm not sure if they have something against padding or what...

3)   Communication issues.  Yes, I could have learned more Korean, but thankfully there are many people that I are speaking English, however they often have an accent so strong I still can't understand them.  I'll be happy to leave that behind.... oh wait!  

2)  The really slippery, really hard, really pointy marble stairway with railings so far apart that small children can fall through, that we have to walk up to get into our apartment.  I am soooo ready to be done with that.

And... wait for it...  the number one thing I won't miss about Korea...

1)  The exercises!  Can you say no more big giant voice?

How to speak one-year old.

So lest you think little e doesn't have anything to say these days, here's a glimpse of life with him!

Whenever we see an airplane, taking off, landing, way high in the sky, or even on a stick, e points at it and yells with all his 1-year-old might, "air-na!"  I'm telling you, the kid has good eyes.  He is often the first to spot them, beating his dad and even his big brother.  Now that's saying something!  He also yells "choo-choo!" at any train, near or far, and the newest addition to his repertoire is "digga!" when we pass one of the 50 trillion diggers here in Korea.  Seriously, I think they must have more diggers per capita here than anywhere else in the world.  Oh, and cranes, there are a ton of those here too.  

At home, e loves to play with cars and balls, so I am often greeted in the morning by him yelling, over and over, "Car, car!  Ball, ball!"  Yes, he is a very excitable child.  He knows where the playgrounds are, and if we drive by one without stopping, he yells "slie, slie" (slide) and pitches a fit.  Or if I open the refrigerator, he has started saying "ya-ya" for yogurt, or "cheese."  He still has a very sweet sign language "please" and "thank you"  which sound more like "eese" and "ah-do."  (Side note:  N and e say the same "ah-do" for thank you.  No idea why they both say it that way!)  Lately though, both thank you and uh-oh have been followed by his own name.  So they come out, "ah-do Ei" and "uh-oh Ei."  Too cute. 

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Mmmm... yogurt!

N the artist


So instead of moving all of N's creations from the past year, I decided to photograph them and then save them in the computer.  Since I was at it, I thought some of you might enjoy seeing them as well.  

This first one is from what we call N's "basketball phase".  All orange circles, all the time.  We think he takes his inspiration from his Uncle T.  (The spirograph work on the bottom is his Dad's... don't get all excited!)  
This next one is typical of his "I just got a box of new markers" period.  Notice the bright vivid colors, and random scribbling pattern.  This is an earlier work then the "basketballs" above.  

Next we have two pieces of work from the CDC (the little preschool type class he goes to twice a week.)  This first one was his first attempt at water colors.   Just look at those brush strokes.
Finally, we have his only titled piece, "My daddy".  This piece was done with brown marker on brown construction paper.  Can we tell he's a daddy's boy?  He's drawing pictures of him at school!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Say it isn't so!

Apparently N is on a roll lately.  He cracked me up twice yesterday when we were discussing our big move.  

First of all, we had to go buy bus tickets to get to the airport in Seoul.  He was all excited about riding the big bus...

N:  I ride big bus!
me:  Yes, where are we going on the big bus?
N:  Airport!
me:  Then where are we going?  (I'm going for Florida or England here...)
N:  Big airplane!
me:  That's right, we will go on a big airplane!  Where is the big airplane taking us?  (Again, aiming for Florida...)
N:  Another airplane... maybe medium airplane!

Yes, N, thank you for reminding me that after our 14 hour flight to Atlanta, we do have to take another airplane, maybe a medium one, before we can actually get to Florida.  Leave it to N to appreciate the journey more than the destination...


Than later in the day I told him I was getting his toys ready to move...

N:  We moving!
me:  yes, where are we moving to?
N:  Another house!
me:  true, where will that house be?
N:  (long pause for thinking)  ... maybe China?

Oh no, I hope not!  It sort of just cracks me up that a three-year old knows China is a place people could move to!  He's so worldly!

Saturday, April 19, 2008

You know it's bad when...

... your three-year old knows the word "paperwork!"  

Yesterday we picked E up after he dealt with more stuff for our move.  I told N to look for Daddy in the parking lot.  When he spotted him he said, "Dere's Daddy!  Carryin' paperwork, and wearin' green shirt."  Yup, that describes Daddy these days, carrying paperwork!  Can you tell we're trying to move?  

Another unrelated, but equally funny N comment happened today.  He fell down outside the BX and skinned his knee a little bit.  There was no blood, but from his reaction you would have thought his leg was going to fall off.  We cleaned it up and went home, where he continued to discuss his knee.  At one point while getting him ready for a nap, he pointed to his knee and said, "dat's my skinny knee!"  Yup, I hate it when I fall down and my knee gets skinny!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Happy Birthday N!



Yup, it was a fire truck cake this year.  More bright red frosting!  As usual, I let him pick out what kind of cake he wanted.  Since I couldn't take him to the store, I found some pictures online and let him have his choice of Thomas, Lightning McQueen, or a fire truck.  A fire truck it is!

We even got to have a little party for him while his Grandma was still here.  (E and I were in China for his actual birthday, so we celebrated a few days late... great parents aren't we!?)  We had four other families over, so there were plenty of kiddos to help celebrate.  I had a rather lofty goal of getting a picture of all the kids at once... and we actually succeeded!  Eight kids sitting nicely on the couch, I think that might be a record!  e, N, Curtis, Drew, Madeline, Josh, Adeline, and Charlee pose for the camera.
His buddies Drew and Josh helped N pick out what presents to open next, while Curtis helped him open his Lincoln Logs.  There were lots of building type toys, so I think daddy was very excited too!  
Of course N wouldn't wear a party hat... but at least we got one on e!  Thanks for coming everyone, we had a great time!

Monday, April 14, 2008

China Fantasy...

So we did it.  Thanks to Grandma, we took a trip without the boys.  It was the first time I had left them for that long, so it took me a little while to get over the guilt of leaving them...  and then I was good!  We had an awesome trip, one I will never forget.  When we got back someone asked me if we had fun.  I have decided that "fun" is not the word to describe a trip to China. "Fun" is an amusement park, a trip to the beach, or some good shopping.  China was beautiful, amazing, interesting, informative, but "fun" isn't really the right word...

We started out our trip in the brand new Beijing airport, built for the Olympics.  I literally stopped in my tracks as I stepped off the jet way, because it is beautiful.  A ceiling that seems to go on forever, and this awesome pagoda in the middle. 
 
It really is an amazing piece of architecture, and a pretty good first impression of China, which I'm sure was the point!  When we got there the terminal had only been open for 10 days.  It was actually our tour guide's first time there too!

Our first sightseeing stop was the Temple of Heaven.  Basically a temple that only the emperor could worship at.  A beautiful building inside and out.

On our way to the temple we walked through this park where there were retirees all over the place, just being.  Some were singing, some were dancing.  Others were playing cards or knitting.  They weren't trying to sell us anything, or asking for money.  They were just enjoying life, and it was really refreshing to see.  
Next we headed to Tien An Men square.  I'll be the first to admit that I don't know my history well enough to really grasp the significance of this place, but it was a little surreal to actually be there, surrounded by the Chinese police.  Here is a picture of the famous building, ironically called "The Gate of Heavenly Peace,"  and one of me on the other side of the square in front of the Olympic countdown sign.  

It is pretty obvious that the whole city is in full scale Olympic preparations, and that it is impacting every part of their lives.  We could see where whole neighborhoods of "Old Beijing" had been torn down, and where their alleys or 'hutongs' are being replaced with high rises.  You can really feel the struggle between the modern and traditional.  On one hand, I saw some of the most amazing modern architecture I have ever seen.  But, I knew that to build that amazing building, many people lost their old homes and ways of living.  The juxtaposition was unreal.  
In other places where the old neighboorhoods weren't being torn down, we noticed that walls were being built around them, I guess to give a cleaner appearance, but it made me a little sad.  

Here is a picture of the Olympic Stadium as we drove by.  They call it the "bird's nest," just trust me on this one... it's really there. 
I know, it's really hard to see, but that's the way almost everything was for us.  The air quality in Beijing was HORRIBLE!  There were times we could barely see across the street.  I was so glad we didn't have the boys with us, because I think they would have had major problems breathing.  I honestly don't know how any of the media is going to get any good pictures at the outdoor events.  I have never seen smog like that.  The air quality was definitely one of the lows of the trip for me.  

The other low for me was the Chineese Acrobatic Show.  I had heard great things about the show, and it was an extremely impressive show.  The things these gymnasts could do were amazing.  However, the theater was extremely dirty and run down.  I kept thinking, if this is what they are showing us tourists (it was only tour groups in there - no locals), then how bad must be the conditions be for the gymnasts working there?  I just really worried if these young athletes had the proper safety equipment or training.  It was the only time on the tour I really got the hee-bee-jee-bees.  

The next morning we headed to the Great Wall.  It was by far the highlight of the trip.  It was AMAZING!  I mean, how could it not be, it's the Great Wall of China!  We took like a hundred pictures (OK, more like 65, but still!)  When we got there it was really crowded, and
 so it took forever to climb.  But as we kept climbing higher, the crowds started to thin out.  
We eventually made it to the highest point we could climb to at this section of the wall (the tower you can just barely see on the top right of the previous photo.)  Let me tell you, it was a work out.  Like the best stair stepper ever.  All that wall you see, it's all covered with steps.  And we did them all.  All of them.  My legs ached for days later, even when we got home!  At one point during our climb, the wind started to pick up and it even sprinkled for a few minutes.  This was a huge blessing because it really cleared up the air, so we were able to get some awesome pictures from the top.  

Yup, that's us, on the Great Wall of China.  How cool is that?  

Here is one more picture we snapped near the top to give you an idea of how high (and steep) this wall climbs.  I was so impressed, I can't believe they built the wall up such steep mountain terrain.  Absolutely amazing.  

That afternoon we headed to the Summer Palace.  It was built as a retreat for the royal family to escape the summer heat, and is even complete with its own man made lake.  It was amazingly beautiful, with all the flowering trees in bloom.  I wasn't expecting this, so it was a really nice surprise.  We rode this Dragon Boat across the beautiful lake to the palace, and then walked our way back.
Another amazingly walkway, and some beautiful flowers.
The next day we headed to the Forbidden City, the royal family's palace at the center of Beijing. I expected it to be a lot like the Korean palaces we've seen here.  In some ways it is.  The art is similar, and the buildings are also of a similar style.  But here they are bigger.  Way bigger.  And closer together, and more of them, a lot more.  The scale is just very different.  Unfortunately we didn't get a great tour of the palace, because so much is under refurbishment before the Olympics, and there was some sort of DV when we were there, and that closed down like half of the area.  This first picture is me outside the gates.  There is an actual moat around the palace.  
E in the first courtyard, where government officials would have gathered.  
Near the back there are so many little buildings and pathways, it's like a maze in there!
The way tours in China work is that along with the amazing cultural sights, you also have to tour all the state run factories.  Over the course of two days I learned how to tell real from fake jade, how Cloisonne is made, how to seed an oyster to grow pearls, and what a silk worm looks like.  Interesting, but not enough to make me want to buy any of the merchandise they sell there, marked up like 300%!  Instead, we went to a market the last day.  It's a total tourist place, but I have to say, I had a great time there.  I bargained for, and picked out my own pearls, and watched them get strung, all for a pretty nice price!  We also got some other goodies, with a lot of bargaining.  I mean, like down to a fifth of the price they were quoting. 

Funny story.  At one point I had picked out some sweaters and the bargaining was about to begin. The woman selling the sweaters looked at E and asked him if  "You boss, or she boss?"  E replied back very quickly, "Oh, she boss!"  The trick was to just name my price and then walk away.  I was never once denied a price I named, even when I thought it was way too low!

Our last night in town, we met up with a former neighbor who lives in Beijing.  She took us to this really trendy restaurant in a hutong, then we walked through the city and got some way yummy street food.  Spiced lamb on a stick, cooked over open coals.  It was so good.  In many ways, I felt like I saw more of the city that night than during the rest of the trip.  We definitely had the best food of the trip with her!  
The next day it was back to the airport to head home, where E found his favorite spot of the whole trip!

Yes, it's his type of lounging.  No sunblock needed, and in an airport!  All that's missing is a nice view...
...OK, that will do!  We were happy to get home to the boys, and I think they (and Grandma) were happy to see us too!


Sunday, April 13, 2008

Everland... again!

What can I say, we love this place!  So we took Aunt EJ and Uncle E along with our friends Lynn, Patrick, and Adeline to our favorite Korean happy place!  Note the "not quite right" Mouse character... hmm...
Right away the three big Es along with Patrick headed off to a big roller coaster.  After a little negotiating, N and I rode a smaller ride, while e and Adeline just hung out.  
I think they were still a little frozen at this point in the day...

Then we were off to the ball room.  What can I say about the ball room.  Such pure joy for boys of all ages!  
Yes, that is Patrick trying to take out E... and E firing back!  Let me tell you, it was harder to get the two of them out of there than it was to get the little kids out!

Next it was time for "It's a Small World", I mean "Global Village."  Yet another "not quite right" moment.  Just like it's counter part in Florida this ride is complete with boats and an annoying song to make a ride that goes on for WAY too long.  Ah, it brings back memories of my childhood where I forced my parents to stand in hour long lines to ride "Small World" over and over again.  Oh what I have to look forward to...
There are some uniquely Korean rides.  Like this helicopter ride where you pedal yourself around a track that is way high in the air (Aunt EJ got stuck with N, who can't reach the pedals, so isn't much help), and this chair ride where the chairs go up and down sort of like a fountain.  
Then we headed for another unique Korean experience.  The Safari ride.  Here you ride in a bus and are literally inches from these lions and bears, with only the bus window between you and them.  It's soooo not politically correct, and would never fly in the states, but it's amazing to see the animals so close!  
I actually made eye contact with one of the lions.  Now that's trippy!

Towards the end of the day I snapped this picture of Adeline.  I love the way the light is hitting her face.  My boys are in love with this girl.  We keep joking that one of them needs to marry her!  I'd keep her now, except for her parents and grandparents might have something to say about that.  She is such a sweet girl and the boys are really going to miss her when we move.
As we were just about to leave, I caught this father / son moment on camera.  "Where's your nose" is a favorite game for e right now!  I just love the closeness between the two of them.  
Anyway, we had a great day as usual!  Thanks everyone for coming with us!

Friday, April 11, 2008

So many Es!


OK - So once again, it's been quite a while since I've posted anything.  I could go on and on with my reasons why (in-laws in town, a trip to China, piles of paperwork for our move...) but instead I'll just get on with the pictures.  I know you're probably all here for pictures of our China trip or N's birthday, but being the person I am, I feel the need to write in chronological order.  Therefore, we shall start with Uncle E's and Aunt EJ's trip to Korea to visit us.  Bear with me as I try to keep all those Es straight in this post!

The first day they were here, we all headed up to Seoul for a couple days of sightseeing.  No, we didn't give them any time to get over jet-lag.  Little e had an audiologist appointment, so that was the day we were going!  Now, if you recall my previous posts, you will remember that e was down and out with the stomach flu.  This hadn't changed.  But, up to Seoul we went, undaunted by the exploding diapers in the back seat.  Actually, the boys and I just napped in the hotel room the first day to give e some more recovery time.  E, Uncle E, and Aunt EJ (this is getting ridiculous) went to another of the Korean palaces in Seoul.  (Not the same as the exploding diaper last week, we were afraid they wouldn't let us back in...)  I love this picture of the three of them.  Those are some strong genes, let me tell you!

I thought I'd include this photo of the inside of one of the palace buildings for those of you in the states.  They are beautiful, the paintings are so bright and vibrant.  Really neat to see.

When in Seoul we usually get around by subway, driving is a might crazy.  Apparently Uncle E thought the subway system was a little convoluted too.  Luckily E helped out his little, I mean younger, brother!The next morning we headed to Namdaemun market (the second time in as many weeks, it's such a fun place!)  But first we had to stop and get our morning exercise.  These little exercise stations are all over Korea, usually near a playground.  Makes sense to me, let the kiddos play while the adults work out!  

At the market, EJ and Uncle E try out some Korean yummies, while little e perfected his gangster look...
Then it was off to the Seoul tower.  We took this cable car up to the top of the hill where the tower is.  
The tower itself isn't actually all that tall, it just sits on top of a high hill, sort of tower cheating I think, but the views are still pretty cool!  
While at the top we realized that e was freezing, so we bundled him up even more, and got some great pictures!
The next day Uncle E and EJ headed out for an adventure of their own.  We sent them off to E-Mart, and they came back with these little accessories for our "minivan car".  These crack us up.  We see them all the time over here, protecting car doors from dings.  It's so funny to see a really fancy new car with blue Styrofoam pads stuck to the doors!

To give them a little more Korean culture than blue foamies on car doors, we took them to the Korean Folk Village.  It's like a Living History Farms of Korea.  There are some amazing shows to see, and working farms to walk around in.  We all had a fun time playing this traditional Korean game where you try to get the sticks into the little cylinders.  Some of us had more luck than others (EJ) but we all had a good time!
Meanwhile, e was mobbed by the Korean paparazzi.  
Yes, he is in the middle of all of those girls.  This is actually a very frequent scene when we travel anywhere in Korea, they just love kids.  Especially blond kids.  As you can imagine, N hates it.  Little e however, loves it.  I mean, he smiles for all he's worth and charms all those Korean girls!

We also took trips to the DMZ and Everland (which will be the topics of later posts) and spent some time hanging out at home (while EJ perfects her Korean photo pose... they all do this),
bowling (with N in bowling shoes for the first time), 
and going to dinner at our favorite Korean restaurant, Sam Il.  
Thanks for making the trip guys, we had a great time!